Thoughts = Life

A few months ago I ran across a coupon for a group hypnosis class for weight loss. I've tried practically every diet out there so why not add this one to the list. Well to my disappointment I didn't get reprogrammed to hate carbs as I had initially hoped. I did however get some much needed instructor-led meditation along with the following message repeated throughout the session. "Be careful what you say to yourself because yourself is listening." That concept really resonated with me. The average person can have more than ten thousand thoughts in one day and majority of those thoughts are negative. Have you ever listened to your self-talk...the thoughts running wild in your head?

• "Why did I do that? I'm so stupid"
• "I'm fat/wide/ugly/too skinny" 
• "I can't do [fill in the blank]"
• "I wish I had his/her [fill in the blank]"

OR

• "I'm so tired"
• "I don't have the money"
• "I'm stuck in this position"
• "I'll never be/have [fill in goals]"
• "Things never go right for me"

It's so easy to be critical of self, but ironically you wouldn't speak to a close friend or loved one in this manner so why do we tear ourselves down? After the hypnosis class I started to pay more attention to my thoughts. I learned that I am extremely hard on myself and impatient. At 35 I am just recognizing that my thoughts and words are little seeds that I am constantly planting in my life. I think, "I'm tired"...my body responds by sitting on the couch for hours at a time. I think, "I don't know as much as my colleague"... my confidence shrivels and I don't speak up in the meeting. I think, "my stomach looks huge"...I now struggle to believe and accept the compliments from my husband.

Okay, so the class didn't prevent me from loving bread and pasta, but it did so much more. It made me conscious of the power of my thoughts. I can control my thoughts. My attitude towards life and ultimately my happiness are within me. From now on I'm planting positive seeds. I'm only depositing GOOD STUFF in this body - physically and mentally. Just like Being Mary Jane, I started leaving post-it notes all over the house with positive affirmations and reminders to be kind and patient with myself.

A couple of books are helping me through the journey to absolute self-love. There are tons of resources on the subject. My favorite are the Hay House books. Louise Hay is the queen of the feel-good!



Take good care of yourself.

Walking for the Mind

A walk in the park can do more than just burn a few calories.  In times like these when we are staring upon an unstable financial market, record high rates of unemployment, and unusually harsh weather patterns, anxiety and stress can throw you into an overwhelming downward spiral.  Equally important to your physical health, your mental health and spirit help you work through the challenges you encounter daily, cope with major stresses, and keep you thinking positive and smiling.

A stroll outside is just what the doctor ordered.  Walking acts like an anti-depressant but without the nasty side effects and for once no health insurance is needed!  A leisurely walk has therapeutic benefits that span all levels— physical, social, and psychological.  When you move your body your brain releases endorphins that naturally make you feel full to the brim with happiness, confidence, and energy.  Pharmaceutical companies couldn’t bottle this natural mood lift if they tried.  According to a Public Health Report, The Relation of Physical Activity and Exercise to Mental Health, physical activity and exercise appear to alleviate symptoms associated with mild-to-moderate depression, improve self-concept and confidence and social skills, reduce symptoms of anxiety, and may alter some aspects of the stress response and ‘Type A’ behavior.

Get moving today!  Three 10-minute walks a day can do wonders for your mind.  There are several beautiful parks with scenic trails and walking loops in the Prince Georges area.  To find the park closest to you, visit www.pgparks.com.  Here are a few of my favorite walking spots.  Hope to see you on the trails.

Watkins Regional Park – is located between MD-214 and MD-202, near the First Baptist Church of Glenarden.  This park features a 2 mile walking loop trail.  Several of its facilities are available to the public year-round: tennis courts and a baseball field, campgrounds and hiking trails, Old Maryland Farm and the Nature Center.  During the summer there is a carousel, a working miniature train and a mini-golf course.  A Festival of Lights is held each year, between November and December.  301 Watkins Park Drive, Upper Marlboro, MD 20774 

Chesapeake Bay Critical Area Tour – The tour is open daily for hiking and bicycling, and open Sundays for vehicles.  The tour connects Jug Bay Natural Area with Merkle Wildlife Sanctuary and features educational displays, observation towers and a 1,000-foot long wooden bridge across the marsh.  Visitors can pick up a self-guided tour brochure from the Patuxent River Visitor's Center, and guided programs are available by reservation.  16000 Croom Airport Road, Upper Marlboro, MD 20772 

Woodrow Wilson Bridge Trail – A 3.5 mile trail that extends from Oxon Hill Road across the Potomac River to the Huntington Metro Station in Virginia.  The trail connects to the network of trails in Northern Virginia, including the Mount Vernon Trail.  To access the trail in Maryland, there are at-grade road crossings at Oxon Hill Road and National Harbor Boulevard.  For more information, call 301-669-2255.

Take good care of yourself.